FLIT FLIT: The place card is a tradition that lives on in certain quarters. It should live on in every quarter, really, because a) it is elegant and b) it is swank and c) it is always a gas to swap cards before the hostess catches you. But sometimes tradition can use a redo. These Butterfly Place Cards deliver that redo; they tell a person where to sit, but from the perch of a glass, not the tabletop. DINNER DIVINE: Timeless Paper makes them; get 50 for $50.